How Do You Get Them to Put It Down and Look at You When You Talk to Them? I have heard the studies and know that dopamine is produced making us feel like we can’t live without them. How do we break the attention long enough to at least give the person right in front of us some sort of feeling like we actually care about what they are saying? This is a question that comes up in my mind time...
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Recently I experienced a moment of selfishness that created an emotion that sparked me to do something I am not particularly proud of. What I did hurt no one but me and that is unacceptable. Amends must be made, yet I am not really sure how to do them. This action also creates an opportunity to teach and be the example that I think I am. What happened was that I walked away from something that...
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Being Present in Death When I was 21 my Great-Grandmother passed away. We all new it was coming. My mother and younger brother moved in with her to help her die in peace at home. They had a very long commute everyday to and from her house so moving in with her seemed like the best option. They were there with her almost round the clock to make sure that she was comfortable and was being taken...
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Getting Too Comfortable. I know that on our coins there are three sides to the triangle: Unity, Service and Recovery. I have been told that Unity is being involved in the program by going to meetings and staying connected with a community of similar minded people with common experiences. Service is about helping others, whether it is in the rooms of a meeting or in your community around you....
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Sometimes I Stay Away out of Fear. I ran into an old friend today. I have nothing but fond memories with him. We watched our kids grow up and play soccer together for a few years. We shared road trips all over the state and some of the neighboring ones for games and tournaments. The time of my life that I was involved with this group of people was a time in my life when I was struggling pretty...
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